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Do the Thing With Them: Why Saying Yes to Your Kid Matters

Episode Overview
In this episode of The YouSchool Podcast, we dive into one of the most important—and surprisingly simple—ways to connect with your kid: saying yes. Whether it’s joining them on a roller coaster, staying up late to watch silly YouTube videos, or going to a fast-food place you’d never choose, these little moments matter more than you think.

We’ll explore why kids invite us into their world in ways that don’t always make sense to adults, and how saying yes can strengthen your bond, create lifetime memories, and show them that they truly matter. Parenting is full of small decisions, and this is one you’ll never regret.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

  • Why kids invite you into their world and how to recognize those moments.
  • The importance of showing up for your kid, even when it’s inconvenient.
  • How saying yes builds connection and sends the message, you matter to me.
  • Real-life examples of how small moments create lifetime memories.
  • A practical prompt for parents to prioritize connection over comfort.

Key Takeaways

  • Your kid’s invitations—whether it’s a ride, a video, or a late-night chat—are opportunities for connection.
  • Saying yes doesn’t mean abandoning boundaries; it’s about prioritizing moments that matter.
  • Shared experiences, no matter how small, help your kid feel seen, valued, and supported.

Quotes from the Episode

  • “Parenting isn’t about perfect moments. It’s about showing up in the messy, unexpected ways that make your kid feel seen and loved.”
  • “It’s not about the activity—it’s about the memory, the connection, and the message you’re sending: You matter to me.

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