Episode Overview: In this episode, Scott Schimmel shares the story of Alex—a smart, capable college student who struggles with decision-making, self-identity, and finding direction in life. Alex’s journey reveals a critical gap: he’s never taken the time to define his fundamental beliefs or values. Without this foundation, he drifts through major life choices, relationships, and social pressures without a clear sense of who he is or what truly matters to him.

Scott breaks down the difference between values (what you think is important) and beliefs (what you think is true) and explains why both are essential for a fulfilling life. He also shares practical ways parents and mentors can help kids reflect on and declare their own beliefs—so they can build a future with clarity, confidence, and purpose.

Key Takeaways:

• Drifting vs. Intentional Living – Without clear beliefs and values, kids are more likely to follow the crowd rather than make intentional choices.
• The Power of Reflection – Kids need time and guidance to explore what they believe about themselves, the world, and their purpose.
• Parents as Guides – Your kids need to hear from you. Share your own core beliefs and values while giving them the space to shape their own.
• Real-World Impact – When kids define their beliefs, they make better choices about careers, relationships, and friendships—leading to a more meaningful life.

Questions to Ask Your Kid:

• What do you believe is right, good, and true?
• What do you value most in life?
• What kind of person do you want to become?
• How do your beliefs influence your decisions?

Next Steps: If this episode resonated with you, start a conversation with your kid today. Reflect on your own beliefs and share them—then ask your kid what they believe. It’s one of the best gifts you can give them.

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